Dating specialist warns against a concerning yet subtle sign that your relationship may not last for much longer.

Clearly, the first option is essential – genuinely pay attention to your partner.

Active engagement with your partner aids in minimizing ‘bid busting’ (Georgeclerk/Getty Images)

“A tendency to turn towards your partner establishes the foundation of trust, emotional connection, passion, and a fulfilling sex life,” the institute adds.

It stands to reason – relationships flourish on mutual interest, and when you turn towards each other instead of away, the connection strengthens.

So, the next time your partner begins to discuss their latest passion, set aside your phone, make eye contact, and engage. It could very well save your relationship!

The Gottman Institute concluded: “Some individuals believe they can freeze their relationship and then revive it with the occasional romantic date night.

“But relationships are established and sustained with daily focus, not grand gestures.

“Attention, intention, interest, and curiosity are the remedies for bid busters.

“Implementing this will significantly impact your relationships.”

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